You want to be the perfect parent? You want to be the perfect employee? Perfect daughter/son in law? You have these expectations which have been set before you enter into a specific season of life or before a particular job etc. So often we are taught to reach for high expectations, they can become self-fulfilling… Continue reading Christmas Expectations
The addiction to busy is something I constantly have to battle. The pull of the buzz of completing something, of assisting, of seeing every person and accepting every party invite. To do all the jobs and to be seen as the competent and together. The woman who can do it all! Did you notice? All… Continue reading Maintaining Slow
Do you always respond in the same way to situations? Are you always drawn to certain things or drawn to certain people? It may be down to the values you hold. Our values inform our thoughts, our words and our actions. Whenever we make a decision our values are always integrated to that choice. Yet,… Continue reading The Importance of Values
The process to begin simplifying is not a one time thing! Unfortunately, there is no magic spell! Instead it is a continual process. A process of questioning, processing and implementing the changes you want to see. The process of simplifying won't happen overnight. In order for this change to happen, it has to be processed… Continue reading How to Start Simplifying
You stand outside the front door. Put the key in the lock and walk inside. All that you can see is the dishes on the side of the sink. The coats falling off the coat hooks. Shoes cluttering up the bottom of the stairs. The overwhelm rising each day. The frustration and anxiety becoming ingrained… Continue reading Why is a Cluttered House so Stressful?
This year Christmas is going to look different for us as a family than any year before. This is our first year entering into the Christmas season with the intention of being intentional with our time and energy. As with any change to the norm, it has not gone down well with everyone and I’m… Continue reading Simplifying Christmas
I was constantly tidying up. Constantly trying to maintain order and control. I was trying to make a circle fit into a square. The circle of my life, into the square of perfection and my idea of what my life should look like. I realised that whilst amazing storage boxes are fab, I still had… Continue reading Just Own Less!
Psychiatric hospitals are not new to me. In all honestly, they are a place where I feel a sense of normality in my world of madness. The chairs, the ticking of the clock. The pictures on the wall, a place so serene and so still. Yet this appointment changed me, The doctor, unsympathetic, reluctant to… Continue reading The Turning Point
For many people, gratitude is not an automatic state of mind, but studies have repeated shown that an increase in gratitude has a positive effect on mental wellbeing.
Hello all, and thanks for coming and checking out this new blog I am starting to follow my families journey to a more simple living. I am a mum to two rowdy boys, a wife, a runner, a journaling addict, an aspiring minimalist, gin lover, OCD suffer, a Christian, a student, business runner, nature lover… Continue reading Hello and welcome!